Pete Patriarch’s Musings

December 4, 2007

The truth about women from a PUA perspective

Filed under: Uncategorized — Pete @ 4:23 pm

This ought to go well with the Schopenhauer post I made a while back. I got nothing to add except that I already kinda knew this before I got into the pickup community.

The Truth About Women

by Unknown

I wasn’t a sexist before I understood women. There was a time when I was blissfully ignorant.

I grew up watching Disney cartoons, I believed in romance and “true love conquers all” etc. I wanted to find a woman who could be my equal, my partner. I believed in finding that one true love and being committed to each other forever. You know, like in the marriage vows, “for better or for worse, through sickness and in health, for richer or for poorer” etc. And I believed that women basically wanted the same thing. Now I understand that this was only possible when society was structured to enforce it. Now that women are “liberated” (and thus at the mercy of their own emotions and baser instincts) this is mostly no longer possible in today’s society. Victorian society, or many Arab societies, are examples of how society used to be structured to keep women as faithful as possible.

I’d like to point out that I am not a misogynist…I love women. But I AM a sexist, in the sense that I believe women are vastly different than men and, according to the standards that men hold for other men, women are inferior as well.

I must be a bitter loser, right? In fact, I enjoy more success with women than most of the men in this city. I have slept with over 200 women in my life. I am sleeping with 5 different women right now. They are all normal, healthy, well-adjusted, good-looking (8+ on the looks scale) professional women. (At least as normal and healthy and well-adjusted as women can be – most women have issues.) But that’s not all. I can go out any night of the week and pick up a woman. I can pick her up in front of all her friends (with 80% efficiency for each approach.) Women will slip me their phone number when their boyfriend is in the bathroom. I can talk to women on the street or in the grocery store and within 30 minutes, I can usually have sex with them right there in my car or get them back to my place. If I have to settle for a phone number, and I meet her on another day, assuming she doesn’t flake, I WILL fuck her that next day.

Let me point out right now that my Modus Operandi doesn’t change in the slightest if she single or if she has a boyfriend or husband. I just do my normal routine and I fuck her. Sometimes she brings up the boyfriend so she won’t feel guilty when I fuck her because now it’s “my fault.” Sometimes she hides it from me until after I’ve fucked her, then she admits it. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been laying next to some chick, all sweaty cause I just finished busting a nut all over her face or in her mouth or on her back, and suddenly her phone rings and she’s on the phone with her man, giving him some bullshit story. This is with NO GUILT WHATSOEVER!!! The sweetest most innocent girls you ever laid eyes on, will cheat at the drop of a HAT. The one thing that most men value most – loyalty – is just not there with women. Women don’t think in terms of honor, women don’t say “word is bond;” women are basically emotionally driven. If they feel it, they do it, period. Then they rationalize it to themselves later. Nothing is more meaningful, or compelling, to a woman than (1) the way she feels and (2) learning more about her own inner self and having emotional realizations. That’s why women love astrology, chick flicks, soap operas, stupid Cosmo quizes that supposedly reveal info about yourself, etc.

I must be really good looking, right? NOPE. My looks are marginal; I’m maybe a 7. I don’t work out (though I’m not fat or anything.) In fact I didn’t have any success with women until I was in my early 20’s. That’s when I decided to go out a lot and start trying to get laid… I was willing to face rejection a thousand times a night, and do it over and over, trying everything, until I got it right. I had to completely set my ego aside. I didn’t get laid at all for the first few months. Then every now and then. Then pretty often. Then downright consistently! I’m in my early 30’s now and I am basically a sexual god. I wouldn’t have even believed this were possible when I was in high school. The ONLY factor that determined whether a woman would cheat was my own skill level. When my skills were poor, women shit all over me. (Everyone knows how women think they have license to be rude bitches in social situations… in fact I understand and appreciate that behavior now.) But once my skills got good, I could fuck just about anyone’s wife or girlfriend. And many times I didn’t know they had a man until after I fucked them.

Look, I’m not saying that men are perfect, or whatever. Far from it. I’m just saying, I’ve spent a lot of my time studying women and interacting with them, and I know how they are. In fact, sometimes I hate knowing it. Sometimes I wish I had taken the blue pill, and never went down the rabbit hole, because now there’s really no going back. I didn’t want to believe these things… but how could I ever get married now? How could I ever be the chump who pays for everything and blissfully goes through life not worrying about his woman because he trusts her? Look, would you leave your dog alone with a steak? You can’t hate the dog for doing what’s in its nature. You can’t trust a dog, BUT you can trust a dog to BE a dog. Some men are disloyal… but I could *never* trust a woman to be loyal. Some men are bad presidents…but I could *never* vote for a woman to be president. I can rarely expect a woman to regard her own promises as more important and compelling to her than the emotions she feels in the moment. She will rationalize it to herself later.

Here’s an interesting fact. Did you know that the median 22 year old woman has TWICE as much sex as the median 22 year old man? You might ask, how is that possible? If a woman’s having sex, doesn’t that mean a man is having sex at the same time? And thus, shouldn’t men be having just as much sex as women? NO…because most men hardly get laid, or if they do, it’s because they “got lucky.” But a small group of men get laid ALL THE TIME, and fuck LOTS AND LOTS of women! It’s evolution at work. Women follow their emotions, and that leads them to sleep with men like me (who know how to control female emotions.) Women want the top man…so the top man fucks lots of women. That’s right – the sexual revolution, feminism, etc has resulted in a return to harems. Women, at the mercy of their own emotions, are volunteering for the modern-day equivalent of harems. Lucky for me!! Heh.

You might say, “But…but…I’m so nice! I’m a nice guy!” Guess what? That’s like a fat chick saying, “But I’m so smart!” As if those things have anything in the world to do with sexual attraction!

I’m going to give some tips here for the poor sucker guys who are posting online trying to get laid and who are spending hundreds / thousands of dollars on all those whores out there without getting any play. (You bitches know exactly what you’re doing, and I’m on to your game!)

* Don’t be sexually judgemental in any way. A woman’s worst fear is to be perceived as a slut. She will suck your toes and take it in the ass if she thinks you don’t view her poorly for it (and she knows her friends won’t find out.)

* Don’t get angry at her. Women know they have emotional outbursts and they need to trust that you can handle that. It’s ok (and necessary) to occasionally put your foot down…just make sure she knows you are fully in control of yourself.

* Don’t let her manipulate you or control you in any way. She will immediately lose all respect for you. Always be leading. It’s just like dancing – women hate a man who can’t lead.

* When first approaching a woman or a group, they tend to get a feeling like this is just your little scheme to get close to them, when you really just want something from them – like sex. (And they’re right.) It’s important to structure your body language and conversation so that they honestly don’t believe you want something from them. They should feel like you are about to leave at any second.

* DON’T TRY TO IMPRESS HER IN ANY WAY. Don’t show off. Don’t talk about accomplishments or possessions. As soon as she perceives that you are trying to prove yourself to her, she loses all interest.

* Don’t ignore her friends. A woman values her friend’s opinions more than just about anything else in the world. Nothing matters to her more than what other women are thinking. Give her friends lots of attention and get everyone laughing. If one woman is feeling different than the others, she will drag them away. They will follow like a flock of pigeons. Society is the book of women. (Notice that men do NOT behave this way! Women are very different!)

* To get a woman attracted / emotionally vulnerable, give her lots of emotions and feelings. Don’t just make her feel good. Make her feel good, and angry, and sad, and connected, and astonished, and intrigued, etc. Make her laugh. Tease her. Tell stories about your sick puppy. Tell her why things would never work out between the two of you. Call her a dork. If she gets heated up, she will start touching you…playfully push her away. If she calls you a jerk and punches your arm, you are doing it right. If she gives you that “I can’t believe you just said that” look, do NOT back down, do not say “Oh I’m just kidding” or anything like that.

* As she gets more emotional, she will try to ruin things by throwing in logic. She will ask you if you are a player, or if you say this to all the girls, or whatever. The trick is this: Don’t take it seriously by giving it some logical answer! That’s right…women lose interest if you take them seriously!!! It’s crazy but that’s how they behave. Just blow it off or misinterpret what she’s saying as though she is coming on to you. If you fail these tests, she will be gone so fast your head will spin.

* She will start asking you lots of questions. This is what chicks do when they suddenly find themselves attracted to a man they know nothing about. This is your chance to open up a little and also find out more about her and build a deeper connection. You have to do this, or she will flake later (even if you’ve kissed her!) Women are the worst flakes in the world! Don’t make it too easy for her, make her work for it a bit. Then talk about connections and childhood memories and things you have in common, etc. She needs to feel that this is genuine. This is usually the time when I throw in a few fake vulnerabilities, like pretending I’m shy or insecure about something. I know it’s fucked up but women need to see that there are at least a few small holes where they can sink their hooks in you. They get uneasy if you are too perfect.

* Make sure she gets the feeling that you have standards and that you are judging her based on them. Ask her questions that show her you are checking her out to see if she is up to snuff. Women don’t like to feel like you are with them only because you can’t do any better. They prefer to feel like you have high standards; you can get any chick you want, but you chose HER because she is SOOOO special and SOOOO different from all the others. Yeah, I know.

* Move her to different locations. Take her next door for a drink. Take her across the street to check out some art. The more locations the better.

* Take responsibility for every escalation. A woman will do just about anything as long as she doesn’t have to feel like it was “her fault.” Make it YOUR fault. Make it “just happen.” She will rationalize it to herself later using the same bullshit generator that women use to flake out on dates at the last minute. Don’t get her horny until you get her isolated. Believe me, emotional is better than horny.

* Keep the woman always swinging somewhere between validation and rejection. If she feels rejected, she drops out or gets REALLY MAD. And if she feels too validated, she will ditch you in a heartbeat. So push her away (emotionally) and then pull her back in.

* BELIEVE YOUR OWN BULLSHIT. Chicks do not look at your excuses and try to see if they are bullshit or not… because that is the logical thing to do, and chicks are not logical. Rather, what they do is see if YOU seem to believe your own bullshit when you say it. If you look like you do, then chances are, they will believe it too. So the key is to believe your own bullshit, and other aspects about yourself that you want the chick to believe about you too (alpha male..whatever)… because your own self beliefs for some reason will automatically ‘impart’ to the chick!

* One more thing…many guys make the mistake of listening to female romantic advice. Don’t listen to them, THEY DON’T KNOW WTF THEY ARE TALKING ABOUT, and they WILL steer you wrong. They will tell you what they THINK they want, instead of what they actually RESPOND to. And furthermore, a large part of the female sexual experience IS the inability to admit these things BECAUSE they derive sexual pleasure from putting up resistance and being overwhelmed.

If you do things this way, after a few months practice you WILL get laid like a rock star. The guys who get laid are the ones who know what they are doing, because they have practiced on lots of women. Ironically, women are most attracted to the men who are most likely to fuck them and then dump them on their ass – because those are precisely the men who have so many other options because they practice on lots of women. That’s why you always hear women bitching about how men are assholes that only want to fuck them and dump them – because those are the men that they gravitate to.

Women tend to wise up when they get towards their 30s, and they start looking for a nice wimpy beta male to settle down with and pay for all their shit. As they get older, they will get more and more desperate to find this guy. Once they do, they will cheat on him with an exciting fun guy like me. (But who wants to fuck some old chick in her 30’s? That’s what beta males are for! Heh)

Hey, don’t blame me – I didn’t make things the way they are. I was just a guy who wanted to get laid. And I do. 🙂



  1. This is the way women are. Even though I am not a professional player like this guy, I have practical experience myself over the last 20 years that proves that this is the way women work.
    It’s really really sad. I used to believe in love and romance when I was younger also. Not anymore. Women are pathetic creatures. Maybe one or two percent have dignity and morality but there are very few. This is why I refuse to marry an American women or western women. I had three serious long term girlfriends in my life and I NEVER cheated on them. It was so important to me (because of my standards that I don’t deviate from) to be faithful so the other person can trust me. All three of these bitches cheated on me. Women are not faithful. Men are more faithful as a whole than women. And nowadays if you are married like most of my male friends you are scared to cheat because you know the courts are against you and you will be living in a studio apt while your ex wife lives in YOUR house that you bought or built with your kids your car and banging some new guy in your bed while your kids are sleeping in the next room.

    This article is just one example of how pathetic, diseased, evil, disgusting, childlike and out of control women are. They live by their emotions only like children do. I’ve been saying this for years and years. They have no moral standards and you can’t trust them because they never mentally grow past thirteen years old. No matter how old they are, they’re in a constant state of immaturity where they only do what they feel and then justify their actions to themselves and amongst their female clan. Virtually all women have a female clan. They are not at all able to be truly independent like most men are. They justify every action no matter how terrible to their female clan. There really is a sisterhood that many guys I know have spoken of.

    They think nothing of aborting innocent babies so they can continue to keep partying in the city. This is the most disgusting part. They have taken full control of reproductive rights and kill babies in the millions every year and most men keep putting women on a pedestal. I puke at Hollywood and all the people you see on TV. Every guy is a pathetic wimp who gives in to women so he can get laid.

    Women are extremely pathetic and not at all what they are betrayed as in public society. Strong, independent, trustworthy, able to take care of themselves. What a bunch of garbage. Most women are nothing but garbage. I truly believe most of societies problems in the last 40 years are because of women, not men, and how out of control they’ve become. Just look up on the internet an issue like paternity fraud or check out the other websites like nomarriage dot com and you will see what I am talking about. Nothing will ever change until men stop giving women marriage, kids, money and cohabitation. Men have to completely cutt off all their assets from women and not give them kids. When this goes on for 10 years then you will see women respond. And still at that point its going to take women to grow up and start changing themselves in public so that younger generations of women dont take the same destructive paths that most women are on today.

    Comment by anonymous — December 5, 2007 @ 5:20 am

  2. “A woman will do just about anything as long as she doesn’t have to feel like it was “her fault.””

    This is unfortunately very true. I have yet to hear a woman say, “oh hey that was my fault, I’m sorry” for an offense more serious than an accidental shoulder brush in a crowded shopping mall. Despite knowing the extreme resistance women have to taking responsibility for their actions and behaving like a rational adults, I still hold out on the “finding that one true love and being committed to each other forever” stuff. From what I have observed, getting laid just to get laid seems to be a lacking experience and brings with it a whole host of problems (sexually transmitted diseases, child support, false rape allegations, etc). Definitely an insightful piece (even though I already knew or guessed most of it). It is also a bit depressing.

    Comment by Anonymous — December 5, 2007 @ 6:31 pm

  3. So if women don’t know what women like, how do I pick up so many hot chicks?

    Comment by Anonymous — December 5, 2007 @ 11:59 pm

  4. I think you’ve mistaken me for somebody who cares. Shoo. Scat.

    Comment by Pete — December 6, 2007 @ 8:49 am

  5. I’m so glad I didn’t marry, almost did, so glad I didn’t!
    The stats don’t lie, close to 60% divorce rate.

    We have a society of party girls, they don’t make good wives.

    Comment by Exploited — December 6, 2007 @ 11:00 am

  6. If you can get past the egotistical statements such as “…I am basically a sexual god”(!) there is A LOT of truth in “The Truth About Women”.

    Compared to the author’s claimed 80% success rate, my one night stand success rate averages “only” 10% meaning that in clubs, I generally have to approach 10 cunts in order to fuck one that night. And even with that, I leave home totally mentally prepared to approach 50 bitchy cunts if I have to.

    Having been a cunt hunter for over 10 years, I can tell you that a 10% one night stand success rate is very, very good for an average joe. 80% is trully world class – almost unbeleivable.

    In fact, my experience tells me that if Mr Anonymous was truly as good as he claims, then as good as his advice was, it would have been even better.

    By that I mean that his advice would have had the classic simplicity, the clarity of thought and the crystal distillation of fundamental truths that typically characterizes the opinions of world class masters of anything.

    By our own words we are known.

    The main reason I question the 80% success claim is the author’s statement
    that “I’m going to give some tips here for the poor sucker guys who are posting online trying to get laid”.

    If that was really his goal and he was really that good then very high on his list would have been some kind of statement, tip or rule about the primordial importance of not wasting time on cunts who are not interested. For some reason however, that most crucial of rules was not mentioned at all.

    From my experience, the #1 PUA tip / rule for success is:
    If the cunt(s) you approached aren’t responding positively within 60 seconds (after their initial coldness to weed out the weaklings) then move on – absolutely no exceptions.

    The #1 attitude to deal with (all) the resulting “rejection” is:
    If she’s not interested then she doesn’t matter. Period.

    A man’s main “power” when cunt hunting is all the hot cunts in the club – In other words, like sales, it’s just a numbers game.

    Cunts know within 10 seconds whether or not they want to fuck you.
    (This is where listening to BS cunt advice can throw a man off of the truth).

    You can’t be all things to all cunts – eliminate the ego.
    If you can’t FEEL a cunt’s interest then she’s not interested (enough) – Period.

    Meat is meat – as long as it’s hot. IOW, if it ain’t the cunt you are talking to then it will be someone else – IF you give yourself the opportunity to get to her.

    That means not wasting time continuing to talk to cunts if you can’t feel the chemistry within a minute or 2 at the most – today’s demented, delusional & diseased cunts (75% have herpes) deserve no more of your time and certainly not ONE CENT of your money.

    Aside from the ego and that major omission though, it was an excellent post.

    While there will always be pathetic suckers willing to play the role of Captain-Save-A-Ho to banged out sluts who are ready to “settle down” the encouraging thing is that with each passing year it seems like there are less and less who are willing to make the sacrifice.

    Way to go cunts. By your actions & choices you have brilliantly succeeded in exhausting the good will of good men – men who at one point were actually willing to marry you until we saw the light – or maybe I should say until we saw the darkness that is woman.

    Comment by Uzem & Luzem — December 7, 2007 @ 9:18 pm

  7. I am not interested in chasing women. It has no real benefit.

    Comment by hjr — December 9, 2007 @ 1:24 pm

  8. It’s ironic that the same feminists who decry “patriarchy” for suppressing the natural sexual instincts of homosexuals seek to do such a thing with heterosexuals. Granted, it might not be on the same scale, but the principles still display their similarities. Until the majority come to grips that their desires just might not be “politically correct” and find the ability to accept this, then the women and men whose biological natures constitute the traditional majority will continue to suffer unfulfilled lives.

    That said…

    “Cunts cunts cunts cunts cunts cunts cunts cunts cunts cunts cunts cunts cunts cunts CUNTS”

    …taking the politically incorrect route is still no excuse for widespread bigotry. I wonder what your success rate would be if every woman (I’m sorry, “cunt”) you attempted to pick up knew beforehand that you had earnestly written such a piece.

    Comment by Kuuenbu — December 11, 2007 @ 10:26 am

  9. Frankly, Kuuenbu, I hear many worse things than this from the mouths of women all the time. But because insulting men as a whole is “politically correct” while the counterpart isn’t, I don’t lose any sleep over it.

    Go out on the street and ask a woman about the last time she made a penis-slashing, scrotum-kicking joke, and then ask a man the equivalent.

    Also, I wouldn’t even bother to pick up a woman who didn’t acknowledge that women can be cunts. Just as I wouldn’t bother being friends with a guy who didn’t acknowledge that men can be assholes.

    The problem is that men fall over themselves to cry out “Yes, Yes, I know that men can be assholes and jerks and players!! I’m different!!! I atone for their sins!”

    Whereas women? They couldn’t care less. Attractive women can open their mouth and spew raw sewage and still be hit on, while ugly women have feminism.

    Comment by Pete — December 11, 2007 @ 3:36 pm

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